Studs and fems relationship quizzes

What type of lesbian are you?

Studs are slightly different from butch women, although they may share many as long as it's not the most important aspect of their personality. Hanging out as a butch-femme couple makes a big, bold, unequivocal statement. It's brave and it's not what most people expect to see when. Choose a food that best describes your personality (not necessarily a food you like to eat): Ice cream (cool and creamy) Salad (a lot of different ingredients).

Lesbian labels span a wide spectrum. At the far-masculine end, we have the butch lesbians: The ones who look and act like men. At the far-feminine end, we have the lipstick lesbians: The ones who are often misappropriated as straight women. Butch, stud, and tomboy.

  • What type of lesbian are you?
  • Dictionary of Lesbian Terms.
  • Butch vs. Stud vs. Tomboy: Putting Things into Perspective

After a bit of examination, we should be able to determine the primary differences and start addressing our partners by the appropriate terms as long as the term is one they agree with; remember, labels are a very personal thing, and no one can assign a label to someone else.

This is a different category than trans men, as we have addressed in a previous article, but society may tend to lump the two together. Shortly after coming out, I made the mistake of telling a stone-butch that she was pretty — and she was rather offended! Butch women are also likely to have more masculine interests as well. Truly, butch women may be into cars, or sports, or even construction trades. Stud Lesbians Studs are slightly different from butch women, although they may share many of the same traits.

Her masculinity not only contrasts my femininity, but amplifies it.

Butch versus Femme Test

Within the butch—femme dance, I feel appreciated for my very essence. My every curve is a path to explore; my flirtations, bold or demure, are received and returned with equal desire. Another way to look at this is that I want my partner to treat me well and to validate my feminine expression. In order for a butch to be a good partner to me they must love deeply, wish to protect my heart, and respect my intellect and rightful sense of self-determination.

Recently I found a huge spider in my laundry room. My initial reaction was to scream.

How We First Met 😌 Jas Side Vs. Mook Side

Then I pulled out a tape measure to document its size, and then I killed it. I take pleasure in breaking the expectations of what a femme can do and be. Femmes are sacred and to be cherished. Butches are sacred and to be cherished. I loved a romantic dreamer who proudly claimed her butch identity. I was married to a trans butch who, after 17 years, medically transitioned to a full-time male identity.

What I really care about is who the person is, how they treat me, if they want to tango, honor my femme identity, and let me honor their masculinity. I, too, reject roles. I love butch—femme and the particular dynamic that exists when two people are firmly in their fullest expression of their gender and interconnected in a dance of complementary opposites.

What Do Butch Women Like In Bed?

Do I ever feel I am playing at a role, or being anything other than my deepest, most authentic self? The divine feminine in me sees the divine masculine in my partner — and it is both a spiritual and sexual connection that cannot be denied.

Whether we call ourselves by certain labels or not, it is deeply authentic and compelling.